The Hypothermic Love – A Reflection

This poem titled The Hypothermic Love was authored by Akiane kramarik at age 10 in her book titled My Dream Is Bigger Than I – Memories of Tomorrow – Part Four Page 145 “You will need your own copy of this book to view the full text of this poem.  I limit quotes for the purpose of discussion and to follow copyright guidelines that allows for limited quotes.”

This poem The Hypothermic Love consists of four stanzas with four lines each…The Photograph I choose for this reflection is a work of art that I picked up during my time in Ireland…It is a miniature violin attached to a sheet of music titled Danny Boy….I choose to showcase that photo sideways to show how romances these days are often sideways twisted topsy-turvy screwed up false love situations that would make your head spin in horror…This poem talks about a cello and so sorry I do not have a photograph of a cello to share so I choose the next best thing a miniature violin which is from the same family of stringed musical instruments…I will quote from Akiane’s amazing poem now…”only in anguish—the livid cello does not like its own sound and you scald your own fingerprints not to know the destiny”….Now the definition of the word hypothermic describes a state of being too cold to generate enough heat to stay warm and as such while in a state of hypothermia the human body does not have enough energy to produce the necessary heat hence hypothermia sets in…This often occurs if a person is out in the cold with no external or assistance to stay warm outside their own bodies which are not adequately prepared for the cold weather…The hypothermic love that Akiane describes in this amazing poem is about cold hearts the cold hearts of mankind who fall into false love scenarios devoid of any real feeling and devoid of reality…I quote Akiane again leaving out the first two stanzas on purpose so that my readers can purchase their own copy of this great work and to follow copyright guidelines that allows for limited quotes for reviews like this one in the form of a reflection…Akiane writes “in a sweating heart hypothermic love is still chilly and can get warm only when it feels”….Cold hearted false hypothermic love can be summarized into one word…Take a moment please to see can you yourself come up with this one word…Hint not pride which one may very well consider a suitable word to summarize false love…Sure pride is part and parcel of these scenarios…Not pride it is a three letter word a very small word yet it packs a punch…Drum roll please and a wee moment of silence is the suspense killing you yet??? Patience is a virtue ya know…Which coming from me the author of these reflections is a joke since I am not patient at all…I have zero patience for many things…Ok ok here it is the one word not a magical word a simple one word…Ego….Ego….Ego….I say it three times for it to sink in…Horrible people who are pathological diabolical narcissists are excellent at appealing to the Ego’s of their targets…These narcs or narcissists will love bomb their targets will put their targets on pedestals and tell their targets who are nothing but narcissistic supply how wonderful they are…For example many men and women have this insane need and desire to get inside the heads of their POI’s their person of interest…This need is so insane that many will call life coaches and psychics to ask whether or not their POI person of Interest is thinking about them even though many callers openly admit to not liking or caring about their POI or person of interest…This is neurotic insanity…I will give you an example of this…I get a lot of calls about love and relationships because I work part time as a psychic life coach myself…I will get mostly women and some men who call and who proceed to describe insane situations…Many are already married or divorced and many are literally addicted to feeding their Egos which I call narcissistic supply addiction…Many of my callers have addictive personalities and have many addictions from drugs and alcohol to sex addiction…Sex addiction is rampant today as is Ego addiction in the form of narcissistic supply addiction…Narcissistic supply is to the Narc the Narcissist like a narcotic a narc drug…Narcissists who are pathological are often sex addicts among other addicts not limited to Narc Supply or Narcissistic supply…I do not encourage my callers to call me back because I aim to help these callers become more self sufficient to learn how to trust their own gut in situations…I am often told that I am the first psychic to pick up on the type of work they do and other peculiar particulars in their lives that other psychics never pick up on…I can often tell if my caller is either presently married or divorced and if my callers have a history of pregnancies that were terminated via abortion…That is a very sensitive area but one of my callers was very impressed that I had a vision of a pregnancy and a subsequent abortion within eight weeks and she told me I was right on the money…I also picked up on that she had more than one abortion..In my conversation with this woman I was very gentle and kind and affirmed her by gently saying she did not have to tell me a thing if she was not comfortable doing so…She told me that she was married to a narcissistic abusive husband with whom she birthed a boy and a girl…She had two abortions in that marriage…She then got pregnant the one night she slept with her new friend with sexual benefits with whom she has been involved with on and off for over four years now…The first night she slept with him she conceived a child and had the abortion which is what I was given a vision of while speaking to her…This woman told me she prays to God and that her God comforted her and affirmed her abortion choices stating that children are a huge responsibility…The God she prays to is not the God of life…The God of life takes no part with death…The God of life takes no part with homicidal abortion on demand…That woman called me twice because she needed to know somebody understood her and cared about her as a human being…I told that woman that if unjust abortion laws were not in place in the first place that her “choice” to abort would have been removed thus setting her up to succeed as a woman and a mother…My message was well received because I delivered that message with love and without condemnation or judgment…I told that woman that she needs to heal from the traumas of her youth which was traumatic for her and I also picked up on that she was abandoned by her parents which proved to be true in her case…She was raised by her grandparents…This post abortive woman needs to know she is loved that she has value and worth that while she made some bad choices…These choices should not have been legally put in place for her to make in the first place…I told this post abortive woman to be not afraid to file breaches of standard of care complaints if she was not given proper care during her traumatic abortions…She was receptive to that too…Now the man this woman is involved with is a friend with benefits – benefits meaning sex….The relationship is insane he insists they are just friends and encourages her to find a permanent partner…So she cuts him off does not call him at all yet he shows up all the time demanding to help her by painting her house and demanding time with her…This insane false love friendship is all about Ego…She became pregnant by him a second time decided to carry this child but had a miscarriage due to her history of three abortions…You see abortion destroys women inside and out and destroys their ability to carry future children to term…As evidenced by the subsequent miscarriage in her story…This sad woman God help her is addicted to the attentions of this lover and false friend…True friends do not have sex – friends with benefits is a demonic sex cult practice from the bowels of hell itself and the children from such diabolical unions always suffer and in this case the wages of that diabolical union was death to both children…Now I am feisty and fiery when I have to be and I have no problem putting horrible narcissists and ugly people in their place…However, the woman I spoke to who had three abortions was to me a victim of the war of the womb…A victim of the war on all flesh…A broken woman hurting from years of abuse and abandonment…A woman filled with loathsome fear of birthing children she was not prepared or willing to have…My message to women like this is healing healing healing…Broken women and broken men need to heal they need to find themselves first…I gently told this poor woman who has suffered enough for many lifetimes…To find herself and in the process of finding herself she will find the strength she needs to kick false friends like that to the curb…What that post abortive hurting woman needed from me that day was an unconditional listening ear…Was I perhaps her flesh and bone personal Jesus like a personal Jesus that she could reach out and touch over the phone??? I have no idea…There is only one God of life and only one true Jesus Christ therefore I never present as a Goddess or personal anything and certainly not a personal Jesus as that would be false…To many callers people like me are often viewed as deities of some kind a forgiving voice on the other line paid big money at times to tell these callers what they want to hear…With me I refuse to tell callers what they want to hear…I tell them the truth whether they like it or not…This explains why my reviews though mostly positive can be negative at times…I am ok with that because I take the good with the bad…My repeat callers and I do have repeat callers know darn well that I can help them which is why they call me…Where I work I am often the first psychic to pick up on particulars in the lives of my callers who have often tried many other psychics…I use no tools whatsoever I simply feed off their energy and tell them what I see in the form of visions or vibes or messages…I can tell from their tone of voice if they are sincere or just bored enough to call me that day…I will tell my bored callers that I know they are bored and that they are wasting their valuable time and money calling me since no answer I have to give would be good enough…I got a good review from one of those type of callers who was impressed that I called them on their crap…They thanked me for it…I can tell if some of my callers are in show business particularly the music industry…I get calls from every walk of life from the very wealthy to the poor and down trodden…I have been told that I can read hearts…I leave that to those who told me this…I do not boast about a thing…Ego is what feeds the reality around many today and Ego is what drives many to the brink of insanity…Ego feeds on others Ego’s and energy and unhealthy love scenarios self destruct or implode over time…There is a massive spike in domestic violence now that Covid-19 requires families to remain home…The mental health of health care professionals is being challenged on an unprecedented level…Health care professionals are not allowed to get angry or express anger and as such are often repressed or Dumb’d down again nothing to do with intelligence rather silenced…I include a link about a top ER doctor who recently committed suicide…https://news.yahoo.com/top-er-doctor-treated-virus-122258067.html?soc_src=community&soc_trk=fb This bright eyed 49 year old Top Notch ER doctor had zero history of mental illness but under intense pressure she cracked and ended her own life from self harm…I used to recruit physicians for Emergency Medicine so I do understand and appreciate the dedication and expertise required to become a top ER Doc…I know that I am not smart enough to become a doctor…We need to pray for our healthcare workers and for everybody in the helping profession our first response teams Etc… We need to be strong and limit phone calls to our doctors offices unless we have genuine emergencies keep the anxiety ridden phone calls to yourself…Now that being stated folks who take psychiatric medicine including anxiety medications are exceptions to this…I am not a healthcare professional so by all means if your anxiety level is through the roof then do use teladoc services or call your doctor…I am referencing the unnecessary anxiety ridden phone calls that many myself included would be tempted to make…Our doctors and nurses and medical teams are under tremendous pressure to perform and many work 24 to 48 hour shifts with little breaks in between…We need to be considerate now and pray for everybody in the helping profession…Doctors can become mentally unstable if overworked without enough rest and supports in place…The same is true of Nurses and all in the helping profession…A term that applies to many in the helping profession is Empathy fatigue…Many men and women of goodwill who fill the ranks in the helping professions across the board are often literally drained or bled dry if you will of their Empathy and good will due to the many traumatic scenarios they find themselves in….I recently had a terrible headache my headache was so severe it felt like a migraine…Rather than panic and make an unnecessary phone call to my caring doctors office…I simply drank more fluids and rested…I offered up my headache for the family who lost that ER Doc that bright young woman at the tender age of 49 only a few years older than myself…I am 47…I also offered up my awful headache for all doctors and nurses and all who are overworked and stressed out in the helping professions…After four hours of rest and prayers to the God of life…My headache subsided I am very grateful for this…The work I do in the form of different work from home jobs helps people and if I can make a difference in other people’s lives in a positive way I will so do so help me God of life…As a thank you for reading this reflection enjoy my songs about False love…I wrote these songs inspired by Amy Winehouse a raw talent gone too soon…I included my playlist of five songs that I wrote dedicated to Amy Winehouse….For all who got caught in the web of False Love this post is for you…